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THE REAL LIFE OF BRIAN.
Once upon a time there was to adalts who got maried and got a little girl. they named her Marisa. But when she got older she started to like geese a lot. So her parants changed her name to Goose Girl.
I first "met" Gabe Lyons at Catalyst back in 2003. He was apparently being mentored by John Maxwell, and was being primed for leadership in InJoy. I was never a huge InJoy fan, finding them to be too marketing oriented, so I guess I never gave Lyons a fair shake either.1. Hypocritical. Outsiders consider us hypocritical - saying one thing and doing another - and they are skeptical of our morally superior attitudes. They say Christians pretend to be something unreal, conveying a polished image that is not accurate. Christians think the church is only a place for virtuous and morally pure people
2. Too focused on getting converts. Outsiders wonder if we genuinely care about them. They feel like targets rather than people. They question our motives when we try to help them "get saved", despite the fact that many of them have already "tried" Jesus and experienced church before.
3. Antihomosexual. Outsiders say that Christians are bigoted and show disdain for gays and lesbians. They say Christians are fixated on curing homosexuals and on leveraging political solutions against them.
4. Sheltered. Christians are thought of as old-fashioned, boring, and out of touch with reality. Outsiders say we do not respond to reality in appropriately complex ways, preferring simplistic solutions and answers. We are not willing to deal with the grit and grime of people's lives.
5. Too political. Another common perception of Christians is that we are overly motivated by a political agenda, that we promote and represent politically conservative interests and issues. Conservative Christians are often thought of as right-wingers.
6. Judgmental. Outsiders think of Christians as quick to judge others. They say we are not honest about our attitudes and perceptions about other people. They doubt we really love people as we say we do.
"Young outsiders want to have discussions, but they perceive Christians as unwilling to engage in genuine dialogue. They think of conversations as "persuasion" sessions, in which the Christian downloads as many arguments as possible."
"Outsiders told us that the underlying concern of Christians often seems more about being right than listening."
"Jesus was called a friend of sinners, relentlessly pursuing the downtrodden. What an irony that today his followers are seen in the opposite light! How can people love God, whom they can't see, if those of us who claim to represent Him don't respond to outsiders with love?"
"The reputation of the Christian faith should never be managed or spin-doctored, but we can change how we're known by becoming more Christlike."

(CNN) -- A federal jury in Baltimore, Maryland, Wednesday awarded $10.9 million to a father of a Marine whose funeral was picketed by members of a fundamentalist church carrying signs blaming soldiers' deaths on America's tolerance of homosexuals.
“Christianity has become bloated with blind followers who would rather repeat slogans than actually feel true compassion and care. Christianity has become marketed and streamlined into a juggernaut of fearmongering that has lost its own heart.”
We've had a lot of calls lately from churches (and a few businesses) interested in renovating their web spaces. They do tend to get stale if you don't keep them updated, and styles do change over the years. It's amazing how many churches have websites built the old-fashioned way with Frontpage, that are still sticking with them. And Bob the volunteer (no offence, Bob) just doesn't have the time to keep the website up, let alone making it attractive and functional.
The last few years have taught us the value and importance of cultivating the inner life in solitude, but there is something inspiring about 11,000 other believers worshipping in the same place. Makes one dream about heaven, and the power of millions around the throne of God.
I've been to Catalyst twice before - once with my friend Darryl, and once with my brother Steve. This year, I really wanted to take my wife, as I've always said she would love it. So we're actually going this year! We left the girls with my folks near Harrisburg, PA, and took a few days for the leisurely drive to Atlanta (my and Lynn's definition of "leisurely" differs greatly, but that's another post).


This time last month I was with ISV in Thailand. In the last three weeks we have given away alot of our stuff, packed our bags, said "adios" to the Dominican Republic, and said "Hey, how's it goin', eh?" to Cambridge, ON. We've moved into a second floor apartment above FEBCentral's office, where they are also letting me borrow some office space until we get things set up here. In fact, tonight is our first night in the new place, after enjoying the gracious hospitality of the inlaws for a week or so.
This picture reminded me of one we took of the girls shortly after we arrived in the DR. They were happy then, and they're happy now. We'll miss our friends the most, but we'll also miss trips to the beach, snorkeling the reef, swimming in the canyon streams, and a hundred other things. We'll go from having a big tropical yard, to a busy street! We'll have lot's of parks nearby, though.
"Home" is one of those flexible words, at least for we in the Mullins family. Since our wedding back in '91, we have moved six times, and we will make our seventh, back to Canada on July 29. For me, home is more about family than zip code, so wherever Lynn and the girls are is home for me. That said, I got home yesterday around four. We got back from the airport and handed out the various souvenirs and gifts I had accumulated while away, and just enjoyed being together again. This sunset didn't hurt either.
Our last few days in Thailand were busy ones. After a day of rock climbing and repelling, we went on a sunset and scuba island BBQ around some of the beautiful places near Railey Beach, across the bay from Phuket. Friday was spent snorkeling around Koh Phi Phi, again, awesome. Saturday we got back on a double decker boat and headed about two hours west for the start of our two-day sea kayaking trip. We traveled through some mangrove swamps and then came into this deep canyon with vegetated cliffs.
At that moment the clouds opened up and dumped sheets of horizontal rain. Kind of a added a cool, life-threatening twist to the adventure as we battled our way back to the big boat. The next day, our last in Thailand, we kayaked around an island, stopping to swim through this narrow tunnel that opened into the lagoon you see above. The scenery was really spectacular, and after an hour ride and delicious lunch onboard, we arrived at Phuket Pier and then the airport, where we caught our flight to Bangkok, and then on to LA, where I'm spending the day recovering from jetlag and waiting for my 11:00pm flight to Miami. At 12:50, I fly to Puerto Plata, where Lynn and the girl will pick me up at 2:50pm. Can't wait!
Don't worry, Dear. We're not moving to Thailand. But if we did, we would live here in Chiang Mai. The people are so friendly and open, and it is a truly beautiful part of the world. We drove through the mountain range you see above on our way to live with a hill tribe for a few days last week. As it turns out, the village is half Christian, which makes it quite unique in 96% Buddhist Thailand. And the church in the village is of the Baptist variety, which made my world a whole lot smaller. I had quite a conversation with the pastor, and am seriously thinking about bringing a team back here some day.
We drove about three hours north of Chaing Mai yesterday, through beautiful mountain ranges, headed for Mae Sai, the northernmost town in Thailand, right on the Burmese border. We are filming another ISV partner project - DEPDC, Development Education Program for Daughters and Children. Most of the children here at considered "at risk", and have come from situations where they were either in abusive or exploitive situations, or would have been had they been left there. They have around 40 kids in residence, and the rest are brought in by bus or walk in from the surrounding community.
I, obviously, am not a Buddhist. I'm not even sure they'd let me be one if I wanted to be. And I know I would look suspicious in the bright orange robes they wear, assuming I could even enter the priesthood. But I am looking forward to learning more about the religion that more than a billion people call their own. The temple above is right behind our hotel and is more than 2000 years old.
I’ve been in Thailand for three days now, and it’s unlike an other place I’ve been. According to my Facebook travel map, I’ve visited 8% of the world’s countries, so Thailand’s uniqueness shouldn’t surprise me, I guess. The world is a big place.
Just a quick note to let you know that I am safely in Thailand, after a smooth flight across the Pacific last night. I'm now officially 12 hour ahead of most of you - the next day. So it's 11:38am on Thursday.
Though Maddy's tribulations were somewhat eclipsed by the more traumatic events of last Tuesday, there was some humour at the end of the tunnel.
Or am I just a survivor at heart? This baby (Breitling Professional Emergency) has a built-in microtransmitter than acts as a locater beacon in the event of an aviation or boating disaster. It broadcasts on the 121.5 MHz aircraft emergency frequency for 48 hours, reaching over 100km in all directions. Pretty sweet, eh? And only $4,480. Start saving up for this stocking stuffer, honey!
I have always held the opinion that if God had wanted me to see the sun rise, He would have scheduled it for later in the day, but that opinion is under review since I took this picture last week. I shudder to think of how many spectacular sunrises I've missed.
I finished up filming at Fraser last Tuesday, with two nights camping on the beach. We were able to cover a lot of ground while there, and filled in most of the material I needed for the video. The only flaw was our inability to find Dingos to film. In all his years guiding on the island, this was the first time Patrick had failed to see at least one Dingo. We suspect that the Ministry of Parks is exterminating them quietly, but we are hoping that because it is mating season, they are simply back in the woods away from people doing their thing. But I owe Patrick and Louise a debt of gratitude for putting me up when we weren't on the island, and introducing me to their wonderful part of the world. (See "Sand Down Under" for a look at the project.)
Things weren't quite as rushed after that, so I took an extra day on the drive back to Sydney, spending the night at a backpacker hostel in the surfing mecca of Byron Bay. I took some time to climb to the lighthouse at Cape Byron, the most easterly point on mainland Australia, before making my way down to a little inn in Karuah, just a few hours north of Sydney. The next few days were spent making connections with my DVD production company in Adelaide, and with the media department of the Ministry of Parks, who will be shipping me some of their Dingo footage.
This morning, I discovered that Hillsong Church had a city campus just ten minutes from where I was staying, so I decided to check it out. For the most part, I was glad I went. The music and message were first class, and the atmosphere was very warm and friendly. I still had the feeling though, and my non-churched friends here confirmed it, that vast numbers of people would not be attracted despite the band and smoke and lights. It's great for Christians, I think, but people still need to be exposed to the Gospel in the context of a relationship. To their credit, they provide those opportunities too.
Now there are two words you've probably never put together. And I wonder why? Other than not wanting to be too closely associated with the extremist tree-hugger types out there, it seems like an almost biblical concept. God created all of this and then pronounced us managers, right? At the minimum, we ought to at least express some concern when we see the environment being trashed, but I have yet to hear a sermon preached on the subject.
One of my earliest school memories is the annual Remembrance Day observance every November 11, where we would wear poppies and assemble in the gym or around the flagpole to honour those who had died for our country in war. It was always a fairly low-key and somber affair. When we moved to the US, we observed Veterans Day, and again, there were ceremonies and wreath-layings all over the country.
This is cool. For those of you who will be wondering where I am today and tomorrow, go to www.flightaware.com and in the "flighttracker" box enter QFA3080 - tonight from 5:30 on, and QFA74 - later tonight and tomorrow. They also track missionary flights by tail number. Agape Flights is N54PA, if you're wondering where your mail is or when it will arrive in Santiago. Every one of those red dots in the picture above represents a flight being tracked. Over 50,000 people are in the air at any given moment.
Tomorrow morning we'll leave our place at 6:30am and drive over the mountain to the airport at Santiago. I'll be flying with Agape Flights to Venice, FL, where I'll rent a car and drive to Old Town, FL and drop off my camera for repair. Next stop will be The Villages, where I'll spend Easter with my family, especially my Uncle Steve who has been dealing with some rather unpleasant cancer - like there's any other kind. I'll preach at their little church and then enjoy Easter with the relations. Hopefully my camera is ready by Tuesday, and I'll fly home on Wednesday.
This morning we met with Pastor Chery, a young Haitian man who is leading a new congregation. They are meeting in the shell of a house they had hoped to purchase one day, but it is in the process of being sold out from under them. They meet several times a week, and on Saturday mornings Pastor Chery leads a class for children in the community. He has several years of Bible school training, but must work in a local resort to pay his bills. He receives no income from the church.Copyright © 2009 briantology All rights reserved. Theme by Laptop Geek. | Bloggerized by FalconHive.